Have you seen the movie Fireproof? If you haven’t, you should. My brother sent it to us for Valentine’s Day this year. We watched it last night and loved it!
It was made by a large church in Georgia with a budding movie ministry and the only professional actor is Kirk Cameron. The movie is about a fireman (Caleb) who has it all together on the job but his marriage has fallen apart. He feels that his needs are not being met and he is angry and frustrated. His wife is lonely and angry. With divorce hanging over their heads and nearly inevitable, his dad comes in and offers HOPE and challenges Caleb to take a 40-day Love Dare. In following this challenge, Caleb finds that he himself was pushing away the hand of God just like his wife pushed his hand away. The faith he receives from God is what enables him to finish what he started – to finish, no matter what the outcome.
Marriage is not as easy as society portrays it. Marriage requires commitment, sacrifice, trust, communication, time and effort from both husband and wife. But if you put all that into your marriage, what you will get out of it is SO MUCH worth the effort you put into it.
Anyway, after watching the movie, Chuck and I agreed that we have that and we have experienced all of the “for better – for worse, for richer – for poorer, in sickness and in health” over the past nearly 9 years we have been together and we know that we have what it takes to make our marriage last a lifetime.
Thank you Kevin for sending this movie to us. I borrowed some of your words for this post but they hold true for us as well as for you and Rose too. We truly loved the movie.